Tanya | Week 1 | Identity as a Quilt
Identity as a Quilt We tend to think of our identity as uniquely ours, but what if it’s really more of a collage than our own creations? At first, it seems pretty obvious: of course I’m unique, why in the world wouldn’t I be? There isn’t a single person in the entire world who has lived my exact life the same way I have with my memories, my quirks, my thoughts, and so on. The more I think about it, the more that the whole idea of originality starts to falter, because I’ve realized that some of the aspects of myself I thought were such a defining part of me aren’t entirely mine to begin with. So much of myself has been increasingly shaped by other people: the way that I tend to approach challenges, the way I stay stubborn and firm-rooted in my beliefs, and even the things that I chose to care about in the first place. Even the little details in our lives have such a profound impact on the way we define...